Sunday, April 22, 2007

There's Something about April

It will be one week on Monday. One week since people around the country heard about the shooting at Virginia Tech. At first, it appeared to be another tragic campus shooting. Then came the news conference with the news that turned this day into a horrific milestone. Seung-Hui Cho, in a crazed couple of hours made April 15 forever a day no one will forget.

But no one could forget this week anyway. The anniversaries of Columbine, Oklahoma City and Waco all fall within a week of Virginia Tech. What is it about April? Spring is in full bloom. Students are celebrating Spring Break. And the world goes mad.

Using April 15 as the center point, take a look at what has happened the week prior and the week after. Not everything is tainted with evil, however the magnitude of the events can't be forgotten. Thanks to several sources including the oft maligned Wikipedia for some of this information.

April 9 (one week before VT)

The infamous Bataan Death March began in the Philippines. Following defeat at the hands of the Japanese, thousands of Filipino and American soldiers were forced to march up to 30 miles with many suffering from battle injuries and malaria. Of the 75,000 prisoners, nearly 11,000 died during the march.


April 10 (6 days before VT)

In 1963, the USS Thresher, a nuclear powered attack submarine, sank during a test dive off the coast of Cape Cod, Massachusetts. All 129 aboard were lost.

April 11 (5 days before VT)

While attempting to become the youngest pilot to fly across the United States, 7 year old Jessica Dubroff was killed when her plane crashed in Wyoming. Her 1996 journey gained worldwide attention as the nation watched her progress.


April 12 (4 days before VT)

Confederate forces fired on Fort Sumter in South Carolina in 1861 beginning the American Civil War.


April 13 (3 days before VT)

Few have heard of the Colfax Massacre. This 1873 conflict between a large group of white men including members of the KKK and a mostly black militia in Louisiana over a contested election ended up with up to 300 dead.

April 14 (2 days before VT)

While watching the play, "Our American Cousin" at the Ford's Theater in Washington in 1865, President Abraham Lincoln was shot by actor and Confederate spy John Wilkes Booth. He died the next day

April 15 (1 day before VT)

A deadly day in history.

1865-Abraham Lincoln dies from a gunshot wound to the head.

1912-Titanic sinks in the North Atlantic with a loss of about 1500.1943-An Allied bomber attack misses its target and hits the Belgian town of Morsel killing more than 900 civilians.

1989-England's Hillsborough Stadium in Sheffield is the site of a human stampede. 96 die.

1997-Fire sweeps through a campsite of Muslims making their Hajj pilgrimage. 343 dead.

2002-An Air China 767 crashes in South Korean killing 128.


April 16

Thirty-two innocent students and faculty shot and killed by a lone crazed gunmen at Virginia Tech. The massacre makes it the deadliest mass shooting in US History.

April 17 (1 day after VT)

In 1989, members of a cult led by Jeffrey Lundgren killed a family of five in Ohio. Lundgren was later executed.

April 18 (2 days after VT)

More than 3000 people died and the city of San Francisco was crippled for years following the earthquake of 1906.

April 19 (3 days after VT)

In 1993, FBI agents stormed the Branch Davidian compound in Waco, Texas after a 51 day stand-off. 79 cult members died.

Two years later, Timothy McVeigh brought terrorism home to Americans with the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City. 168 people were killed. McVeigh was later executed.

April 20 (4 days after VT)

Two high school misfits entered their school firing at students and teachers. Twelve students and a teacher died before Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold took their own lives. The 1999 shooting marked a grim end to the 21st century.

April 21 (5 days after VT)

A jailhouse fire in Columbus, Ohio, killed 320 people in 1930.

April 22 (6 days after VT)

The city of Guadalajara, Mexico literally blew up in 1992 killing more than 200 people and leaving thousands homeless. Gasoline in underground pipes fueled the explosion.

April 23 (one week after VT)

Finally, 1987 saw the worst disaster in Connecticut's history when the L'Ambiance Plaza collapsed while under construction. 28 workers were killed.

There is definitely something about April.

Monday, March 19, 2007

Flying the friendly skies

I fly a lot. Lately, way too much and one thing I've discovered is EVERYONE is flying again. I remember flying just a month after 9/11 and the plane was half full. Now, every seat is taken. Unfortunately, nine times out of ten, the middle seat is taken by the same guy. I'll call him Burt and he weighs more than 300 pounds. Burt enjoys his food. That's evidenced by the mustard stains and lord knows what else that decorate his oversized skin tight shirt. The sad part is, Burt doesn't have the same kind of love affair with soap and water. From the moment he plops down and the whoosh of stench overwhelms me I know it's going to be a long flight.

Like heat rising from the pavement, Burt's presence soon envelopes his flying companions. You know this by the tell-tale scrunched noses...the quick looks around as if there's some sort of sign saying, "Over here! It's not you!" Sometimes, I'll help the searchers with a guilty eye move toward my seat mate.

And is it me or have airline seats gotten narrower? I generally sit next to the window because I have great bladder control and I can use the wall to rest my head. When Burt takes his seat however, I'm trapped. The wall is now a barrier and Burt's girth slops over the arm rest and onto me. There's no escape.

So, the next time you fly the friendly skies, look for Burt. I'll be the one gasping for air next to him.

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Oh Jack...

I like CNN's Jack Cafferty.  Remember when he was the grump
on CNN's morning show?  Well moving him to his very limited
role during Wolf Blitzer's afternoon show hasn't made him any
perkier.  But last week, I think he tip-toed across the line.  
Referring to the over abundant media coverage of Anna Nicole
Smith's death, he asked Wolf if Anna was still dead.  There's 
funny, and then there's tacky.  This, I think, was tacky.  Still like
Jack though.

 

Pauley P

I'm sad to report the demise of Pauley P's blog. Who is
Pauley P? If you've ever seen the television show NCIS,
she plays the part of Abby, the somewhat dark goth like
crime lab investigator. Anyway,Pauley kept an online
blog, not about the show, but about her personal life.
It was thoughtful, at times deep, but always an enjoyable
read. However, that has come to an end. Here is her last
post.


Thursday, February 1, 2007

Good-Bye To This Unfortrunately


I am SO SORRY to have to post this...

But for my own safety,

I can no longer continue to have a public blog.

I am heartbroken,

but have been threatened by someone who will not

leave me alone and obsessively tracks my blog

for information on me.



SO MUCH LOVE to all of you who have

written and read...

we have prayed together,

we have shared,

we have helped each other...

I thank you all.



But one bad apple

can ruin the whole church.

I can not put up any personal information

anymore.

I am being threatened

and my safety is at risk.



With SO much love to all of you,

I have no choice.



Keep praying,

keep loving each other,

be kind to one another,

stay strong...

I'm still here spiritually

I just can't be here in words anymore,

the threat is too much for me.



Love...

and of course,

cheers

to all.



P.S. AS ALWAYS...

I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO

WITH MYSPACE.COM

I AM NOT ON MYSPACE IN ANY WAY.

IF YOU THINK YOU ARE COMMUNICATING WITH ME

THROUGH MYSPACE.COM, YOU ARE BEING CONNED.

There are several sweet and awesome fansites

ABOUT me that are run by good people,

but they are clearly marked as "FANSITES".

As of now, I do not have a personal site,

so do not be fooled.



Love to the good people.

Be Smart.

Stay strong.



Posted by pauleyleaves at 2:14 AM

Monday, February 5, 2007

Black History Month

 The Super Bowl was played yesterday.  The Indianapolis Colts beat the Chicago Bears 29-17.  Billy Joel belted out the National Anthem and the artist formerly known as Prince and now known as...Prince, made it through halftime without a hint of a wardrobe malfunction.  

The Super Bowl is always a focal point of the year.  The 2 day long pre-game shows, the television commercials, halftime fireworks and a whole lot more.  This year was no different....well, it was a little different.  Yes, this year, race played a key role in the Super Bowl.  

You see, Tony Dungy, the esteemed head coach of the Colts and Lovie Smith, who is taking the Bears to the big game for the first time since they destroyed my Patriots in 1986, happen to be black.  The fact that people write or report about that is, to me, an insult to them.  Dungy and Smith are perhaps the classiest football coaches in the game.  Their football mind and intelligence is a story.  They way they treat people with respect, that's a story.    The fact they are black is not a story.  It's this kind of hoopla that makes racial inequality live on.
I am not a racist.  At least I hope not.  I believe people should be treated equally no matter who they are, what color they are, no matter what size they are.  But I am tired of the whole black thing.  Tony or Lovie would not have gotten to where they are if they didn't perform.  They just happen to have a darker skin color than most other coaches.  That skin color did not help them become better coaches.  The fact that they are black is a non story.  Keep hyping it and we'll never reach MLK Jr.'s dream.

Come to think about it, there are a lot of "road blocks" out there that slow down our progress to equality.

Who came up with Black History Month?  Our country isn't old enough for racial recognition months.  Native American Month I can see.  But a month set aside frankly because of guilt?  

Did you know there is a National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Association.  When is it a requirement for us to know who you are sleeping with and why does that matter.  Congratulations by the way for at least having someone.  

And yes, for those who require the construction of a nuclear powered propulsion system in Spanish there is The National Hispanic Engineer Association.
 

These groups and events do exist.  Here are a few that I doubt do.
  • White Guy Day.  Every 5th Friday in February.  A day to reflect on and then apologize for any advancements to mankind.
  • Heterosexual Day Parade.  Men and women march through Times Square and argue.
  • Nobody loves me year-gay, straight or otherwise.  I've been celebrating this one for a while.
When you cut out the labels, we are all people. Someday, someone will realize that.

 

Saturday, February 3, 2007

The End of the World Found a New Messenger

You no longer need to walk the streets of New York to see the dishevelled old coot with the sandwich boards hollering about the end of the world. Oh it's coming alright, but now it's in the form of internet websites. Apparently anyone can have one and they only cost the price of a computer and internet connection.

I'm talking about Myspace. People apparently have forgotten the art of personal communication. Now, they post messages to each other so the whole world can see.

"These 12 hour work days have kinda killed our fun factor, but same ole, drink when we can, chill out, little orgy last night lol.. i wasnt involved though had to sleep for work, but w/e good times. i think im still going to sleep hear even though i belong to the 54th, mackey will have a new roomate haha"

Ah, what? Thanks for that Alex.

From a guy named Alan, "I have your myspace virginity haha! Because I work nights, so I don't go to bed until 5 or 6am."

Apparently in the myspace world, that is an important get. And thanks for the explanation Al.

This one is a touching message from a fellow who goes by the name of "Not Guilty."

WHATS UP YOU FAT ASS BITCH? SO WHY ARE YOU SO STUCK UP?THERE ISNT A MAN THAT WOULD WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOUR SLOPPY ASS,WELL THERE WAS ONE AND HE WAS DRUNK AND THEN HE SOBERED UP AND LEFT YOU AND THE BABY..NOW YOUR A HAS BEEN NO FUCKING JOB NO BOYFRIEND AND A UGLY ASS KID,JUST LIKE HER FUCKING SLUT MOM!!SO NEXT TIME YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO GET A GUY YOU BETTER JUMP ALL OVER IT YOU FUCKING BITCH ASS SLOB!!!!FUCK YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!

I think "Not Guilty" may have been guilty of being drunk at one time (at least).

If a member doesn't make their page private, anyone can enter their little world. And they do. In Iowa, two sex offenders were arrested after they met a 14 year old girl on Myspace, convinced her to meet them and then proceeded to molest her. How many of these stories do we hear about almost weekly?

Finally, from "Mind Waste" a modernized, souped up version of the End of the World sandwich boards.

"Yeah i think the end of the world is coming and i love to talk about it and many other conspiracys. i love the x files and the sci-fi channel, along with animal planet of course but i think it's getting way to goofy. as you may have noticed i have a spelling problem but hey, its better than genital warts."

Spelling, may not be your only problem.

We have indeed come a long way.